Interrupted travel plans

Brontallo
When my grandmother was eight, she went on a trip to visit her grandparents in Switzerland. It must have been quite an adventure for the little girl who lived in the tiny California city of Santa Maria; a train ride across the United States to New York and then a week long sea voyage to France. The journey ended with an overnight train to Locarno, in the Ticino region of Switzerland.

Like so many other Europeans in the late 1800s, my great grandfather Frederico left his homeland to make a new life in America. Most immigrants couldn’t afford to go back to see family, but Frederico had made the journey once before; returning to marry his childhood love, Pia, “the most beautiful girl in the village.” Fourteen years later he returned again, this time with Pia and their four children. He wanted to show off his new family.

My grandmother, Lillian, was the second youngest. She must have been excited to see where Papa grew up and to meet her grandparents for the first time. The holiday was supposed to last six months. They had rented out their white stucco home in California and Frederico had put his meat business on hold.

This was June 1914. Though Locarno is a small lazy city on Lago Maggiore, news of the assassination Archduke Franz Ferdinand of Austria must have rumbled over the quiet lake. War was soon declared and all passenger ships stopped indefinitely.

My grandmother and her family were stuck.  Even if they could make their way to a port, there was no way to get the 7,000 miles home. It was out of their hands. To make matters worse, no one knew how long the war would last. I would have found the uncertainty the hardest to cope with.

They of course made the most of their situation. The California-born grandchildren got to spend some quality time with their Swiss-Italian grandparents. They learnt to speak the local language. They spent the winters in Locarno, and the summers tending goats in the hillside village of Brontallo. It was war time and they weren't without tragedy, my grandmother's brother died of cholera.

They eventually made it back to California six years later.  That's a whole other story I can tell you another time.

Last month, when the volcanic ash over Iceland made us unsure of when we would return to the UK, I told my eight-year-old daughter that we may be spending some extra time at grandma and grandpa’s. She was thrilled.

"You mean no school mummy? Cool!"

Photo credit: rfarmer

25 COMMENTS

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  2. A Modern Mother | 7th May 10

    @geeky I don’t know how parents coped in those days, perhaps they used detachment as a coping mechanism

  3. A Modern Mother | 7th May 10

    @angels you were stuck at club med??!!

  4. Geekymummy | 6th May 10

    What a great story, would love to hear the rest of it. And how sad about the boy who would have been your great uncle. I’m so grateful to love in a time when losing child is a rare tradgedy. Your story reminds me It was not long ago that losing one or more of your children was commonplace

  5. angelsandurchinsblog | 6th May 10

    Heck, that puts our week ‘stuck’ in Club Med Tunisia into perspective. It really wasn’t such a small world back then, was it?

  6. A Modern Mother | 6th May 10

    @nat it was a different time, but yes, myself included

  7. Nat | 6th May 10

    What an amazing story. Makes people who are stuck for a couple of weeks whiners!

  8. A Modern Mother | 6th May 10

    @mummyzen precisely, and I’m usually the first the complain, we have it way too easy

  9. A Modern Mother | 6th May 10

    @Susie right after she she no school, she also acknowledged it would be great to stay with grandma and grandpa…

  10. Mummy Zen | 5th May 10

    I really enjoyed reading this wonderful story. We’re so quick to complain about the slightest difficulty these days and then you look back at people like your family and have to admire their resourcefulness and the way they just got on with it!

  11. susie | 5th May 10

    Great story. and yes, kids always see things the best and simplest ways.

  12. A Modern Mother | 5th May 10

    @stigmum I love stories that are passed down
    @expat very hard to imagine, what a different type of person they must have been, and I have to wonder if I would be here

  13. Expat Mum | 5th May 10

    It’s almost impossible to imagine that when people emmigrated in those days (and even later) they rarely saw or heard from their families again. Great post. Mi piace!

  14. Stigmum | 4th May 10

    Wow what a story! Can’t wait for part 2 (and how ever many more!)Very special these tales and what a great one for your own children!

  15. A Modern Mother | 4th May 10

    @antonella yes, and maybe that’s why I love Italian food!
    @iota and I wonder in what ways quality of life is better (or worse), I really do
    @nappyvalley your hubby is right!
    @califlorna the return trip is a bit sketchy, and a bit scary!

  16. Calif Lorna | 4th May 10

    Amazing story, we do take travel for granted these days. And yes, can we have the return trip story too, please?!

  17. Iota | 4th May 10

    What a story – could you tell us the tale of the return trip?
    We’re always in such a rush in this 21st century, aren’t we? We can’t cope with the idea of a delay of a few days. For your grandmother, it was years. And just the length of the journey from California to Switzerland, by land and sea, compared to a day’s journey on a plane.
    Life has changed so much in such a short space of time. A couple of generations.

  18. nappyvalleygirl | 4th May 10

    Fascinating story – I wonder how many other families were affected in that way?
    My husband said during the whole volcano business that the only other thing that would have stopped all flights/travel would have been a war.

  19. Antonella | 4th May 10

    What a fantastic story! So you’ve got some Italian ancestors after all. That’s why you’re so nice and clever! LOL! Ciao. A.

  20. A Modern Mother | 4th May 10

    @liz @Mwa @DD Thanks, I enjoyed writing it, and thought the connection with the past a bit intriguing

  21. Dulwich Divorcee | 4th May 10

    Lovely story

  22. Mwa | 4th May 10

    What a story! And such a beautiful link to the present. Gorgeous.

  23. Liz@VioletPosy | 4th May 10

    That’s such a lovely story and thank goodness they were in Switzerland and safe. 6 years does put the current problems into perspective doesn’t it?

  24. A Modern Mother | 4th May 10

    @trish I used to love hearing these stories from my grandmother…

  25. Trish@Mum's Gone to | 4th May 10

    A fascinating story; puts the recent unexpected “volcations” in perspective. Would love to hear more.

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