A football mum by numbers

Muddy football boots

First, there is the mud. I've never seen so much. On the pitch. In my car. On the carpet. This is a pic of the girls' football boots AFTER I cleaned them.

Second, there is Satrudays. They are no longer yours. Satrudays are spent driving from house to house picking up children to take to matches. And then to and from the matches (and sometimes back again if you forget a jacket at the football pitch.) Multiply car travel by the number of children particapting.

Third, Thursdays. Practice. In our case, it is 40 minutes away. Have you ever spent an hour in a car in at 6 pm on a November evening, drizzle on the windscreen, using an iPad as a light to try and read a book?

Fourth, the dedication. I found my daughter the morning before a match on the Internet researching the team she was about to face. I thought that was pretty thorough. (They won 4-0)

Fifth, the confidence. For my oldest, football has been the best extra ciricular activity she has done. Better than drama, French, art, dancing, Spanish, board games, piano, violin, swimming. She is a valuable part of The Team. The exercise turns her face red. She's learning about leadership.

You can read about how my girls got into football in my article on the Huffington Post UK: Football is cool, and it's for girls too!

5 COMMENTS

  1. Bekomumsunited | 15th Dec 11

    Football is a great activity for girls and boys, but it does take a committed parent to do the hard work, ferrying the kids back and forth and standing on the freezing sidelines week after week, come rain or shine. I am one of the long suffering football mums and am blogging for Beko Mums United. Fancy a reward for your time and efforts then check out Beko’s competition, win a new set of kitchen appliances for you and a new kit for your children’s team. http://www.facebook.com/bekomumsunited

  2. Expat Mum | 18th Nov 11

    I have to say I do far less schlepping with my third. I think I lived in my car when my teens were l little so I was quite pleased when the 8 year old decided not to be too sporty.

  3. Lou | 18th Nov 11

    My daughter (when she was aged 7/8) played rugby and was pretty good but she didn’t like playing with the boys and has since transferred her affection to hockey.
    Any team sport is super good for life training I think.

  4. PollyBurns2 | 17th Nov 11

    I feel that in the next couple of years we are about to get into that with rugby. Oh joy! Polly x

  5. Lunarossa | 17th Nov 11

    Great article, Susanna! And yes, I have spent many evenings in the cold car waiting for my daughter (and before her, for my son!) at football training. And then the Saturdays in the cold, windy and rainy weather. And no chance to wait in the car then because you have to support them “live”! We football mums have it hard! And not even the fact that we have girls save us from football anymore. Ciao! A.x

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