Everyone in Antigua knows everyone else. With 80,000 people on the 14-by-11-mile gateway to the Caribbean, it’s easy to see why. Most reside near the capitol of St John in the northeast. The rest are scattered in the candy-coloured villages across the island. The resorts pretty much claim the coast. I learn this from our taxi driver from St James’s Club, who toots every five minutes when he see someone he knows.
Everyone also has a pet name. Ladies usually get theirs from their parents, and it’s something cute like Doll or Button. But if you are a boy you most likely got your nickname at school and it’s embarrassing. The trick is to not make a big deal about it, says our taxi driver, who ran for a seat in Parliament last year (he lost by 100 votes). If you make a big deal about it, it WILL stick. His pet name is Driftwood. After returning from New York with a political science degree from Fordham University, he came back to Antigua and opened a restaurant. A hurricane left lots of driftwood nearby, so the name stuck.
Antigua is part of the twin Island nation called Antigua and Barbuda, though our driver estimates 80% of Antiguans have never visited their sister country! Why would you? With a beach for every day of the year and everything you need imported or grown on Antigua, most locals don’t visit. I’d like to take the 90-minute ferry to the coral-fringed island. Barbuda is flatter than Antigua and boasts the longest pink sand beach in the Caribbean. Plus is only has 2,000 inhabitants and is home to the world’s largest Frigate bird colony.
Christopher Columbus christened the island Antigua (Spanish for old), but locals call it Wadadali (roughly meaning “our own”). British influence is everywhere. There’s Piccadilly, Carlisle and Thames Street. But the Americans won out with currency, US dollars are used and accepted everywhere (Florida is only a 2 hour flight).
Everyone here is also super friendly. They are keen to share their love of the island, and some are even required to! Taxi drivers that serve the hotels need to pass a test on history of the island and basic hospitality.
The local sense of humor takes some getting used to. We asked for just a drop more of wine, and got literally that, and then a giggle and a smile. It’s endearing. The staff at the hotels are proud of their jobs, and it shows.
Girls are long and leggy with hair tightly wrapped on top of their heads (braids and beads usually come into play). Boys are lanky and sweet and if you ask nicely they may let you in the local lingo. Each Caribbean country has its own dialect. Antiguan English shortens and combines syllables, so “What’s going on?” becomes “Wa Guan” (to which you would reply “Mi Kool” or the Rastafarian “Mi Irie). Ya man.
There are long and thin coconut trees everywhere. They’re hard to tell apart from the palm trees and the date trees. My daughters got very excited to see bananas growing in situ, which you usually see in the villages, by someone’s house. I guess it would be like have an apple tree in your back garden.
British tourists are interested in the history and the beaches. Americans the beaches and shopping. French just the beaches. But that’s a generalization. I love all three!
As this was our first visit to the Caribbean, I learned a few things about travelling with families which I share below. It you’ve been to Antigua, please share your thoughts too.
16 important things to know when planning a family visit to Antigua:
Elite Island Resorts Their impressive collection of Caribbean resorts includes St James’s Club and Verandah, both family resorts in Antigua.
Virgin Holidays Three flights a week from Gatwick.
Antigua and Barbuda Tourist Board The beach is just the beginning
We were guests of Elite Islands Resorts, Virgin Holidays and the Antigua and Barbuda tourist board. As always, my opinions, and that of my stroppy preteens and teen, are entirely our own.
Californian Mum in London | 30th Dec 15
Great tips. Is camouflage really a national offense? It sounds hot, but at this time of year, sweating in the sun sounds nice.
Katy Hill | 2nd Dec 15
Oh my goodness – this looks AMAZING! Totally on my wish list to visit at some point. Can’t beat a bit of aqua blue water. And I want MY name to be Button! Or Doll. I’m not fussed! x
Susanna | 4th Dec 15
You’d love it there Katy. So nice to have guaranteed sunshine.
Michelle Twin Mum | 1st Dec 15
Ohh your lucky, lucky girls getting to experience Antigua, I am super impressed it is only 8 hours away. Sign me up! Mich x
Susanna | 4th Dec 15
I feel lucky too Michelle, it was my first trip to the Caribbean and wasn’t quite sure what to expect.
jbmumofone | 1st Dec 15
Oooh we have been trying to think of somewhere to go for my 40th. This could be perfect! Thanks for the top tips x
Susanna | 4th Dec 15
You’d love it!
Cerys | 1st Dec 15
Antigua has always been on my list of places to go thank you for the top tips.
Susanna | 4th Dec 15
It was on my bucket list too. So glad I went!